I think that someone said something about platonic friendships and about not having lunch together, etc, because you don't know where it might lead.

Well, this set me thinking, because I have had friendships with males, and had lunch with male friends.

I don't know if these friendships could, in certain circumstances, turn into anything else, because I just don't let them. They are friendships and I am in a faithful marriage and that's that.

That's the thing, these men may be really nice and attractive people ~ after all, you wouldn't really want to be friends otherwise ~ and if I wasn't married, then who knows how the relationships might work out, but because I'm married I don't know. It's not an option. These are friendships & not romances.

My husband knows these people.
He has lunch with women from work.
I trust him and he trusts me.


"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.