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I would venture to guess that there are many people that have been married for a while who fall in love with someone other than thier spouse. A lot of the time, this never developes into a relationship; sometimes it is a love known only by one person, and sometimes two people keep thier love for one another burried. But, as long as it doesn't cross into physical love making, it harms nobody.
I think it is very possible to love more than one person. The question is, if you love another, is it okay to tell them how you feel?
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