Sorry if I seemed...mean last night.
I just firmly believe that women in these situations can find better men that PROVE they want to be with them by not leading them on for months. having been at the bottom end of the kind of man that treats you worse than xxxx under his shoe, and having found someone who actually cares after has shown me that people don't HAVE to be put through that xxxx for love, because that isn't love at all..I think you could find a man that wants you and only you, regardless of what anyone else thinks.
He will pick you up when you are down, and then not have to run back to his girlfriend because YOU will be his girlfriend.
If this other guy truly cares, you beginning to move on will either snap him into action...or show you that he was never there to begin with. You are not the one that needs to have patience with him. You DESERVE better
GOOD LUCK!!
