Saltine, I realize that my viewpoint will not be pleasing to you. Yet, I must tell you that many, many men play women with the "I don't want to hurt them" line. Some men - and I use that term loosley - like to have several women available to them.
If I loved a woman, others' opinions might be considered, but ultimately it would be my choice. And if I could not be content with anyone else, then I'd have to make the choice for myself.
