Satine - I sence there is something else going on here. Why would his parents disown him if he chose to have a different girlfriend than he has now. Are there some religious/ethnic factors that have not been expressed?

It does not sound like you have the whole truth. It also sounds like you are a fling. I don't mean to be harsh but if you both really have that strong of feelings about each other there should be a mutual desire to be together (for real).

I know how strong the electricity of an exciting relationship can be - but are you willing to "settle" for just that part of his life. It sounds like you are willing to give him your full life, but is he willing to give you his full life?

Last edited by BLR; 12/14/08 01:49 AM.