Your step son sounds like an idiot. That said, it is not your place to criticize him as that won't get you anywhere with your husband. You'll unfortunately have to come to terms with the fact that your step son and his wife will continue to make poor decisions (at least ones that you don't agree with) all their lives. It is their life not yours. So, if they want to be stupid with it, you'll have to let them be. Since they're 37, it is unlikely things will improve dramatically.

Is there away that you and your husband can agree to not enable his step son's bad decisions? That way, you (and hopefully, your husband) won't get dragged in.

Last edited by masseur ichi; 10/15/08 02:20 AM.