I'm not advising you to follow your heart and ask for nothing in return ~ I'm just responding to your comments.
My advice was to forget him, but, as I said, I don't know him or you or the situation. And you said 'I still am having a hope for him'.
It's got to be your decision, what you do next ~ no-one else can decide for you what you are going to do and how you are going to respond.
If you follow your heart, ask yourself, where might it lead?
Unrequited love can be painful ~ who would choose a one-sided relationship?
There are millionss of people in this world ~ which means millions of choice combinations.
Choose a man who you love and who loves you ~ that combination exists somewhere.
Seek that out rather than following your heart to a place that may no longer exist.
Choose happiness ~ it's there somewhere, if you look for it in the right place.
For now, concentrate on yourself for a while. Go to evening classes; learn to dance; improve your diet; go shopping; go to a beauty spa; go on visits with friends and family, etc!
Good luck ~ all will be well, if you allow it to be.
Last edited by PDM; 09/30/07 01:02 PM.
