I spent too many years with a man I thought loved me, while I loved him too dearly. We are not together any longer. After we split I heard he had gone "down hill". His standards were never the same as mine after all. After wasting so many years on the wrong one, I am with the right one who was always there for me, always my dearest friend. He waited! I am blessed beyond belief. Go with your heart. Also, timing is everything. Good luck, and listen to your heart. It never lies!