I don't know what she wants, either.
This is an unusual scenario,
She is no longer living with you, so where is she living?
It strikes me that she wants some fun with the other man, but wants you to carry on loving her and supporting her, even as she is being unfaithful to you.
And you are fitting in with this, by letting her have her taste of freedom, sending her your love, hoping for 'sweet dreams' and doing as she asks.
You are being a lot more patient and tolerant than many men would be. This may or may not be the best way to deal with this.
It is not unusual for women in committed relationships to find other men attractive. Not all go off and have relationships with them. Those who do have relationships with the other men tend to have secret affairs. Your lady is being frank and honest with you.
You don't know what she really wants. Perhaps she doesn't either. I think it's important for you to ask yourself what you really want.
I think that if she wants your love, then really she should be with you ~ not with someone else. But it's for you to decide.
Good luck!
Last edited by PDM; 08/03/08 11:23 PM.
