My birthday party at this seafood restaurant/bar was great.... my gf came with me but earlier that day I got two restricted phone calls on my cell phone. First call they didn't say anything, second call they said: "You better not show up there tonight. You better not. I'll be in there tonight".

Turns out her bf had gotten my number from her phone while she wasnt around when we were broken up.

Anyway that struck a nerve with me, not because he called but because he was so much of a coward that he had to call restricted. I told her about it and she was furious and was going to call him back to curse him out but I told her not to and to just play dumb.

Anyway we entered the place and he was standing at the bar he looked at me crazy and i stood my ground and looked at him crazy and he just wondered around looking like an idiot then he tried to speak to her and she told him to F-off.

I mean how dumb can you get by coming to a bday party when all my friends are there and would pounce on him in a heartbeat if that's what I wanted but it wasn't what I wanted.

He eventually left and we had a fantastic time. She's finally over him and he can't stand it and by him calling my phone it only pushed her further away from him.

Things are great now. I can really tell the difference in her this time around as oppose to when we first got together.

When we first started dating I always felt that she was holding back her feelings due to them being held down by him in their past relationship, but now I'm getting all the love because she's free of him and it feels great.

So I wanna thank everyone in this thread for your input and advice during the miserable days I had to endure throughout this ordeal.

Thanks =)