Hi MW1
Welcome to the forum.
I hope that we shall be able to help.
I have started a completely new thread for your concerns. Hopefully you may get more input there.
Here it is:
New Job/Depressed Husband , Marriage/Future/Kids?
http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthreads.php/topics/396906#Post396906I have quoted your post there and also BLR's response.