Since that time i feel like some kind of long-term wall fell down. I feel like I can trust him somehow, in a way I couldn't before. He says I am acting different, more pleasant...but it's because I feel he showed something inspiring, something I could respect in him. It's hard to explain. It's made a huge difference.
I feel like I can relate to what you are saying. I know that with my first husband if I could have had an experience like that, and if it would have come out like that; it would have made a huge difference in my feelings about our relationship. May I suggest that what you felt was loved. Sometimes our relationships get to the point that you don't even know that what you need is to feel loved.
