Update: So far there has been little contact but only coz we are employed at the same place and are now on the same shift there were 2 shifts he worked the 2nd but because of the economy our company has gone to 1shift luckily I work on one end of factory and he on other. I miss all the good qualities of our relationship but there were issues on both our behalfs that have to be resolved before we can have a happy/healthy relationship with each other or any one else I accept the fact that I need to work on me I've known this for a long time just been avoiding, denying etc...And it feels awkward to say I'm gonna be selfish about me and thats that for now until I feel Happy/Healthy. Ironically before I got into this relationship I was advised that I wasn't ready and to wait a year. But No I'm rather stubborn and like usual have to learn the hard way so word of advice when you get good advice from a good source listen to it!! Homie
