Hello 'Ashes':)
I'm sorry, but I just don't know what to say. I wish that I did.
I know that you two are very attracted to each other and find it hard not to be intimate.
Personally, I think that young people should wait before becoming intimate. However, I know that many do not.
The reason that you cannot be with your boyfriend is that your father knows this, too, and fears you having sex ~ and all that goes with it: ~ unwanted pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases, loss of 'respect' from others, not having virginity at marriage, etc, etc.
Is there any way that you can convince him that you will keep the relationship 'innocent', if you are allowed to be together?
Of course, you would then have to keep to your promise, but it would probably be easier if your emotions were not so heightened by the situation that you are in.
Could your aunt act as a mediator, perhaps?
