I would also recommend having a look at the 'Venus and Mars' books. I think that they are very good for helping to understand the difference between male & female psyches ~ and how understanding and misunderstanding can happen. They are probably available at the library.

You can listen to a talk at the website, as well.

http://home.marsvenus.com/
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Men-Mars-Women-V...6311&sr=8-1
http://www.amazon.co.uk/Mars-Venus-Colli...6311&sr=8-3

"The secret of success is constancy to purpose" - Benjamin Disraeli.