Yes, it is difficult.
No-one wants to make a girl ~ a young lady ~ feel nervous and scared or distrustful. And no-one wants to accuse all boys ~ young men ~ of being sexual predators.
We can tell from the posts on here that most of the young men who post are very caring and respectful.
However, as I said before, one 'nice' young man was simply leading one of our posters on. This happens.
And girls can lead boys on, too.
Just know your boundaries, ensure that your partner knows the boundaries, and stick to your beliefs. Be careful and wait a while before feeling sure that you know your boyfriend well ~ or if a boy is reading this, the same applies to girlfriends.
Better to be careful than to get hurt.
