I agree, good advice from PDM. I would add, and be firm in knowing your bounderies like your father said. I can tell you that it will be hard because the woman is always persued. If they didn't make men with strong desires the human race would have disappeared a long time ago. I never regretted making my bounderies clear to the boys I was dateing even though they were persistant. It made it easier to get to know them without the complication of intimacy. Men will be the first ones to tell you that they respect a woman for it and consider her worthy to marry because of it. Once he understands this, you both will be able to relax and have fun and get to know each other even better.
