I am sure you do believe and trust and love him. You have proven it to him, because he has gotten three chances to prove you can trust him.In four of your posts he has progressed from cuddleing to putting his hands down your pants. If apoligizing and telling you he is sorry will get him another chance to progress further, it will be worth it because his eye is on the prize. You were blunt and told him what you were not comfortable with and he didn't listen. What makes you think that he will listen and stop when he is in the throws of passion. You are being led down a path slowly and carefully with a blindfold on. If he really is worth your love and if he really loves you, and if he really RESPECTS you he will not try again. If he does, don't delude yourself into thinking that he would stop and not really hurt you. If he does it again, he is only waiting until you are too, turned on to stop. The consequences of that can hurt you, even if it is mutual. Love or no, untill you have been with him for more than two months, you don't really know him. If he isn't around later, you are the one who will have the damaged reputation, crushed feelings, disallusionment, broken heart and possible pregnancy. If that isn't hurting you, what is? He is 17 years old maybe, and I am sure he isn't thinking any farther than the tip of his.......nose. If he loves you, he will take control and will not leave how far the situation goes up to you. If this post seems heartless and cruel, it is not, sometimes the most careing thing you can do is show someone the other point of view, no matter how harsh. There is an old saying, "True love is worth waiting for". It may sound corny, but it has been proven right again and again. Take care.
