I don't think that "girls suck". I dare say I have found many of them to be quite enjoyable. It isn't about gender, it is about your life, love and the pursuit of happiness. Life can move very quickly at your age, and usually does. Instead of cruising in the fast lane of life; pull over and park for a while. I think you will be able to "focus" if you are not moving in any direction, for a little while.