have to say, it was actually quite good for me to read ur message PDM,made me aware of a few things.
my bf told me on thursday that he is seeing someone and that he 'wants to see how it goes'.we had a relationship and then an on off thing for 4 years.im feeling very down at the moment but at the same time i think he never made enough effort to speak so maybe im better off without him.ive never had such a problem in my two other relationships ive had so thankfully i know that its not my fault.its still quite upsetting though.