I'm not insulting anybody, I don't think. If one's actions and attitudes bring to mind a characterization that happens to be insulting, there really is nothing to be done other than avoid the issue at hand which is undesirable in an exchange of ideas.

I guess I could have said "Gee, that's not very nice.", but that would have been far too mild in describing the behavior of someone who says 'I have a girl that I think is boring and annoying and who I don't like to talk to and whose company I don't enjoy, but I like to keep her around to make out with." Do you agree that "not very nice" does not do justice to such an attitude?

Creepy is as creepy does