I feel that you are useing her to keep from being alone and in a way i think she may be picking this up you need to talk to her more get to know her and let her get to know you if she is that boreing then you need to tell her you need more action more spice perhaps you need to iniate it or something but a physical attration is shallow and boreing it gets old after a while be spontaneous do something new and get her to join in if she refuses then tell her the truth that you and her were just not meant to be together cause you need someone that is as outgoing as you and do not like to be held back I am sure there are plenty girls around that are like that.
