that is exactly right! it is no longer any of their business what happens between me and her. that is what we keep trying to get them to understand but they just don't seem to get it.
YES, that is what they expect from us but we won't give them the satisfaction that they think that they deserve.
to be completely honest that behavior really bothers me too. i can't stand people who are like that.
you are right they can't make a judgement on me because they are no longer associated with me. they are the ones that made that decision and now they got what they wanted.
