OK yeah i keep telling them its not any of their business ...
Now all you have to do is believe that it is none of their business.
If you truly believed that, then you wouldn't think that you were in a 'total mess'.
And if they truly knew that you believed it, then they would probably get bored with it & leave you, & the subject, alone.
You know that all is well, so hold your head up, believe it and stop taking the bait!
Don't react.
Change the subject ~ be ready, with something interesting to impart.
