Hi & welcome! smile

Yes, it does sound as if he likes you, but something seems to be holding him back.

It could be something to do with family, as Joandboys suggested.

Are there religious or cultural differences that could be important and might be affecting his behaviour?

Maybe he is just shy and, like you, doesn't want to appear too forward, or desperate??

You could be right about the lack of car.

Or about remembering his fiancee & what happened there.

Maybe he thinks that your family, by asking him to stay, etc, had some expectations of him ~ perhaps this pressured him a bit??

Maybe he doesn't want to get too involved with someone from a country that isn't his home.
After all, if things got serious, would you be willing to move to his country?
Could he / would he stay in yours?

Why not contact him about those results and go for coffee or something?
You might just find out! smile

Last edited by PDM; 05/15/08 10:51 AM.

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