Woah..if only it were that easy to answer.

I can say being a gay man would not help, my best friend can vouch for that he was engaged to be married and his fiancee just stopped talking to him and then left, so evidently men are good at the silent treatment stereotypically attributed to females ....but I am getting ahead of myself.

What do we want, figuring out what i want is hard enough , I certainly can't speak for my whole gender.

I think we need more specifics to help out honestly, it's just a huge question.