Superstar.
Relationships need to be based on trust as well as love. You need to learn to trust each other, I think, if this is going to work.
I don't really think that a board like this can really give you the help that you need. That's why I suggested counselling ~ but you need to be sure that you are getting a good copnsellor.
Here in the UK, we have 'Relate' ~ it used to be the Marriage Guidance Counselling service (they changed it to 'Relate' because not all relationship counselling involved married couples.)
Victor is right that there are many men who are reliable and supportive and would not cheat on you, but I think that there are also a number of men, who find commitment and responsibility very frightening ~ especially if they are quite young.
