I am in love with a married man
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am in love with a married man. We have had a romantic relationship for a year and a half and we are so in love. We know that we are meant to be with each other. We talk about being together some day. In my opinion he has the perfect life and I don't know if I can see him throwing it all away for me. He tells me that true love is so much more important than "things." Do I wait to see what happens? Do I tell him to figure it out and when he does to find me if I am what he decides? I feel anxious and I don't know what to do. I know he is my soul mate and I don't know what I can do. Please help!
You didn't mention whether he has kids. That makes a big difference.
It is one thing to break up a couple marriage, but much worse to break up a couple with kids.
Your idea of telling him to make up his mind is the right one. You should not continue cheating which is not fair to his wife or to you.
Hope this works out ok!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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