I am in love with a married man
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am in love with a married man. We have had a romantic relationship for a year and a half and we are so in love. We know that we are meant to be with each other. We talk about being together some day. In my opinion he has the perfect life and I don't know if I can see him throwing it all away for me. He tells me that true love is so much more important than "things." Do I wait to see what happens? Do I tell him to figure it out and when he does to find me if I am what he decides? I feel anxious and I don't know what to do. I know he is my soul mate and I don't know what I can do. Please help!
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
I feel your pain. I too have allowed myself to fall prey to my own insecurities. My situation involves children. I am in love with a man who not only could be my soulmate (if he were free), but my best friend too. We share so many of the same ideas and interest.
I know that I must break free from this situation because I am in ever increasing pain. I don't want to be responsible for the pain of another's family and I don't want to burn and go to hell because of my own selfishness.
If you truly love someone, then you must be willing to let them go. My dear sister, break free.
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