I am in love with a married man
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am in love with a married man. We have had a romantic relationship for a year and a half and we are so in love. We know that we are meant to be with each other. We talk about being together some day. In my opinion he has the perfect life and I don't know if I can see him throwing it all away for me. He tells me that true love is so much more important than "things." Do I wait to see what happens? Do I tell him to figure it out and when he does to find me if I am what he decides? I feel anxious and I don't know what to do. I know he is my soul mate and I don't know what I can do. Please help!
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
Not true love
sometimes we think of two possible outcomes for a situation a good and a bad one. Well sometimes it is more like bad and worse. There is no good transition out of having sex with a married person. You can not build a strong relation out of an irresponsible, no strings attached, escape relationship which is what this is. I have been there too altough in my case I did not know the other person was married but I ate the cake anyway knowing that I would have to stop a some point and that was the right decision. Ask yourself the question how can you expect this man to be faithfull to you if he cheats on his own wife. Maybe you do not care. This is not truel love but true cheats. repent or go to hell.
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