You know after reading like the first few posts i started getting worried. but later it seems like your doing fine. Friendship stage you want to take the most advantage of. Thats where you build trust with your lady. I agree with PDM, we teenage guys can get alittle( who am i kidding with a alittle) nervous. I was too during my hunt for a girl. You say she may be doing track. Well encourage her to, that way you'll have something to talk about.
Speaking of talig about stuff, i have the same problem, too much stress and other stuff going through my mind, and not enough
good things to talk about. Look, heres some ideas.
1.Tell her about yourself, whats you strenghts, whats your weaknesses(may want to include her)
2.Ask her about herself, just don't go too deep if she has family issuses. They are not your concern.
3.Talk about school, graduation, where are yall going for college. this one is like, important. Depending whre ayll going for college, you may see each other for like 3 years or more(maybe on breaks). My girl is headed for Flordia to go to college, there nothing i can do about it.
4.You say you are built somewhat. OK here's don't tip. Don't tell her about how you got them. Some girls just seem to pretend about liking those type of conservations.
5.Talk bout what yall going to be doing in the next 5 days. Don't go beyond 2 weeks. trust me that screwed me up. Too many things in the agenda too know about.
6. Just talk about whatever you may think is best for yall to about.
Now if anybody has anything to change or add they will.
You say yall have classes together. Yell lets say yall got a project that you and her can work on together. Now here comes a real question. Do you cook? If so, make it a study date and you can provide dinner. if you don't cook. leave it to your mother, or whoever dose they cooking.
Now what kind of music do you listen to? I perfer havy rock, metal, but my girl friend like hip hop. two diff's i can get over. it's good to keep some music collection that she will like.
Oh well, just remeber, stay in the freidship for a while, see how well you two commuicate. I've been dating my girl now for 1 year and 12 days. So if you take my advice or not, you wouldn't hurt if you didn't. Just be yourself you'll do fine. And if she's not the one for you, there's plenty other girls. Don't stay focus for one girl. I've actuuly calucated how much money i wastedtrying to get a girlfriend, and it came over $200.
Be careful. Relationships must be taken lightly.
Good Luck.
