Well, the comment was still inappropriate, although I apologize for my tone earlier. I know too many Christians who let their beliefs get in the way of doing things in the true Christian spirit. It's not your place to dictate the way another person lives. It's your job to be her friend, accept her for who she is, and support her during the hard times. I'm glad to see you stepping up to some of that responsibility.
One of the highest causes of teen suicide has to do with confusion about one's sexual orientation, and how it will be received by others. It's a VERY touchy subject. I would like to think a good friend would come to my wedding, wanting me to be happy with the person who completes me, rather than putting up barriers. That's what true friends do. I hope this realization comes to you in time.
Best wishes.
