oh and you don't have to wait for someone to recommend a counselor - try searching for one and giving them a shot. If you don't like them, just try another one - they won't get upset if you don't come back and if you don't feel comfortable telling them you didn't like how you worked together, go ahead, let them schedule another appointment with you, then just call and cancel - but remember to cancel!! It can be expensive if you forget about an appointment and have to pay the full price of the missed session.
