Hello!
i also think that you should talk to her. You should take the initiative and find a solution to this. You two should talk to come up with a solution together! If this does not turn out to be the way you wanted, Dont feel bad! Its ok and it hurts but think of it this way: There is someone looking for you in this world! sometimes, things are not meant to be!! Smile!! But yea, my advice would be to talk to her and tell her that she should put her feeling in order.
Good luck!
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