The thing is, others can advise him, but only he can make the decisions.
It sounds as if he is easily convinced.
He trusts you when he is with you.
He trusts his family and friends when he is with them.
He needs to really sort this out for himself and make his own decisions.
But is this what you really want ~ a man who relies on other people to make his mind up for him.
I'm guessing that the worst thing for him is being reminded that you have been with another man.
When he is with you, and enjoying life with you, he can put that out of his mind.
The other thing is, what was it about him that made you think that he didn't love you in the first place.
I still recommend counselling.
Would he consider it?
