He cheated on me but says he is sorry
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I WAS OR AM NOT EVEN SURE IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR THREE YEARS. FOR THE PAST THREE MONTHS ME AND MY BETTER HALF HAD PROBLEMS HE CHEATED ON ME AND BUT SAYS HE IS SORRY AND HE WANTS TO STILL BE WITH ME BUT HE CAN NOT LEAVE HER EITHER. HE SAYS I AM THE GREATEST THING HE HAD IN BED AND THAT HE NEEDS ME IN HIS LIFE YET HE STILL WANTS TO BE WITH HER TOO. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH BUT I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM HALF WAY . SHE DOES'NT KNWO ABOUT ME BUT I KNOW ABOUT HER. MY MIND GOES CRAZY THINKING HE IS WIHT HER. HE SAYS NOTHING SEXUAL HAS HAPPEN . HE CALLS ME EVERYDAY BUT WEEKEND COMES AND I DON'T HEAR FROM HIM.
WHAT DO I DO ? SHOULD I LEAVE HIM AND DON'T TURN BACK.
You need to figure out how much he means to you. If you care for him no matter what then let things stay the way they are. However, if you are like most people, tell him to make up his mind.
He needs to choose between her and you. If he refuses to stop seeing her, then make your decision.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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I stayed with him
He Needs to Choose