He cheated on me but says he is sorry
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I WAS OR AM NOT EVEN SURE IN A RELATIONSHIP FOR THREE YEARS. FOR THE PAST THREE MONTHS ME AND MY BETTER HALF HAD PROBLEMS HE CHEATED ON ME AND BUT SAYS HE IS SORRY AND HE WANTS TO STILL BE WITH ME BUT HE CAN NOT LEAVE HER EITHER. HE SAYS I AM THE GREATEST THING HE HAD IN BED AND THAT HE NEEDS ME IN HIS LIFE YET HE STILL WANTS TO BE WITH HER TOO. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH BUT I DON'T WANT TO BE WITH HIM HALF WAY . SHE DOES'NT KNWO ABOUT ME BUT I KNOW ABOUT HER. MY MIND GOES CRAZY THINKING HE IS WIHT HER. HE SAYS NOTHING SEXUAL HAS HAPPEN . HE CALLS ME EVERYDAY BUT WEEKEND COMES AND I DON'T HEAR FROM HIM.
WHAT DO I DO ? SHOULD I LEAVE HIM AND DON'T TURN BACK.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
He Needs to Choose
I agree with George that he needs to choose between her and you. Like he says, if he refuses to stop seeing her, then make your decision. You definitely deserve the best !
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