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Hi Mone

I think that your thoughts here may be helpful to Craig, but I also think that maybe you are asking for help for yourself?

I'll start a new thread for you
http://www.wineintro.com/forum/ubbthreads.php/topics/406539#Post406539

ok so me and my ex have started arguing i told her if she has done anthing with another guy that i didint want her back
she said i have now blew any chance i had by saying this
she then said that she just wants to be single and not have a boyfriend so i said well why dnt we just start dating again an not get into a relationship just to see how we go then she said no your a horrible [censored] leave me alone

and so they no contact plan starts again

yo crag.. how's everythg?

ur ex sounds like me -.-!!
i also told the same thing to my ex.. i wanna be single..
u knw wad.. i hate he smoke..
b4 this i wanna together back with my ex..
but he said sth that really pissed me off..
he posted this in his twitter
" if you don't love me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best"

Craig y u wanna ask her such question?
That question really made her angry because this shows that
you don't trust her..
in bf-gf relationship.. trusting each other is very important.
For me if I heard such words, I might have this tot..
1) OMG, in your heart i'm that kind of girl..?
2) u hurt me so much..
3) u broke my heart again.. i cant accept u anymore..
May I know,
1) Do you really loves her?
2) Why would you bother she has done anyth with another guy or not?
3) Do you really wanna together back with her?

Maybe you should just buy some flowers and find her .. talk face-to-face.. to try tell her something.. like
im sry ashley, i realised i cant live without you..
pls forgiv me.. i promised i will try my best to gv u happiness..

Hope it helps.

hey
yer i wont her back more than anything but i just got angry because she didn't seem to be bothered. i have asked her to come and see me but she just says no it will makes things worse, how can things possibly get any worse by cumin to see me face to face she wont even talk on the phone now

i think her friends got into her head that i was controlling her which i wasn't i always encouraged her to go out with her friends i have bought a few books on relationships an even watched films on youtube they all say the same thing when u stop chasing her they start to miss you i keep saying am guna try this but the sumthing will happen on facebook like her sisters adding me and commenting on a picture where we are both saying we love each other and i cant resist the urge to contact her

frankly speaking..
if she loves u.. really will miss..
but now i think..
she maybe really need some time to heal the wound..
u wanna wait her to miss u

OR

play safe..
MAYBE.. just maybe..
everyday find her.. but don force her..
just be nice.. show some caring is enough..
For example, early morning text to her..
just 1 simple text.. something like
i'm missing u badly..
the next day like..
plz forgive me honey..

i oso nvr talk to my ex when im angry.. i even cut his phone..
i nvr pick when im angry.. mayb she's crying?
actually last time i was crying.. and i don wanna pick his call..
how am i gonna speak when i was crying..

by that time.. 80% of my friends suggested me to broke up with him -.-!
sth like... " wan him for wad? he is immature"
"there are still a lot of guys out there.. choose another one la jess"

actually craig i feel u should learn and think carefully b4 u talk to ashley..
lols.. wanna use my ex words?
" a man shouldn't beg on a woman for her forgiveness, but y im doin this? it's because i love you jess"
but all these words were used when the 1st time we broke.. we really togethr back but then broke up again -.-!

Hope it helps.

this is the first time we have broke up the way we left it today i think i need to let it cool down for abit go out over christmas with my friends and have fun my be take my mind off of her il give it 2 weeks an try messagin her am missing her like crazy see if that helps hopefully by then there wont be bitterness

ok.. all the best craig~

hey jess so what did your ex do to make you want him again after you broke up with him

non-stop of begging..