RomanceClass.com Forums Romance Breaking Up I found evidence, I broke up, now i'm here

I had my suspicions because of late night e-mail sessions after I went to bed. I used a keylogger and got way more than I was expecting. From her e-mails she is doing this because the business I own has not been making any money for the last 6 months and she is having to work to pay bills. This is the first time in my life I have not had money and have had a down time in my business. Obviously I feel somewhat guilty for not being able to provide.

I think i'm still in shock. Together for 5 years, never had any serious problems and true love. I understand that a woman needs to look out for her future. She was e-mailing multiple men from her past complaining about me and offering sexual encounters. I'm assuming so that she could start something and then make a switch.

It's all very sad. I think I may leave the house for a few weeks while she moves her things out.

Hello Marko and welcome

What a sad tale!

I would say that, if your partner of five years is offering sex to old flames by e-mail, then you are probably better off without her ~ especially if it is because your business is going through a bad patch.

I'm not surprised that you are in shock.

There are at least two sides to every story, but, even if she had valid complaints, this isn't a good way to deal with them.

Remember that time heals.

I agree completely. She sounds like she has some sort of sexual issues that may have nothing to do with you, Marko, after all... Good luck & let yourself heal.

Thank you for the responses. I have spoken to her a couple times over the last 2 days. She is very upset and I genuinely feel bad for her. I have moved out of my house temporarily so that she can take her time getting a new place as it will probably cost a lot.

I have no desire to get back together. I wish this whole discovery did not happen but it seems like it will be for the best in the long run.

Maybe she needs counselling or something.

Take care and give yourself time.