My first wife actually left me in 1977 with twin girls aged 2, she has not seen them from that day to this, they will be coming 30 this May. I use that explanation ( much to the amusement of the twins i might add )of her desertion of us . I deeply apologise Sonia if i gave you the wrong impression, it was not intentional, it is just a way of dealing with that event in our lives.The rest is fact,If she had'nt have left i would'nt have met my wife, have another beautiful 18yr old daughter and two beautiful Grand- Daughters. Fate indeed.