You have to work at it, My wife and i have been together 26yrs, through thick and thin we have come through,. My first wife died in Kansas when a house fell on her after a hurricane hit the farm she was staying at . All they found of her were her Red shoes, if this had not happened i would not have met my present wife, there is a lot of luck involved. I am a great believer in fate and destiny, just persevere.
