Not to be mean but i agree with DaveDave, you are being kinda selfish.....this is my thought why dont you try to work things out with your wife??? or try marriage counseling. Instead of jumping into a divorce. Because no matter how much your in your kid's life after the divorce they will always suffer from pain from the divorce, and you shouldnt be cheating on your wife....she dosent deserve it... i say man up and treat her like a women should be treated.
