ok, this may cause some controversy but I'm not sure where else to turn so here goes. I'm a married man who has been in an affair with a married woman for almost 8 years. Early on she was willing to divorce her husband to be with me and I was not ready. Now, things have changed and I'm ready to divorce my wife but she is having second thoughts due to the impact the divorces would have on our children. We do love each other, and at the same time feel we have responsibilities to our existing families so the question is....how do we proceed? Do we stay in unhappy marriages for the sake of our children or do we make ourselves happy and move on. Would love some insight on this one please!
