That is life ... not all what we want we get.. What is good is in other people;s hands and what we do not like or see unsuitable for us is made available and we do not wish to take it. What can i say .. also i have an ex hubby and a b/f for the first time in my life who is married with kids so i have to make such a clean break as advised... i fear being lonely and do not want to be the isolated single mum in a foreign country! so what other options i have? Family say work, work and work and definitely my kid , will that be enough? what else i could do to avoid tears and loneliness?

Last edited by Clearskies; 07/29/09 08:04 AM.