Well, as we have seen, over & over again on this part of the site, it can be very difficult to accept that a relationship is over, if one doesn't want it to be.
One party may consider a relationship to have ended, and for a relationship to exist, both parties have to be in it, therefore it would, indeed, be over, but, from the other person's point of view, this may not seem right. It would, then, be difficult for that person to accept.
The point is, if you do not feel happy in this relationship, then it cannot continue, but that doesn't mean that it will be easy for him to accept, whether or not he has done anything to contribute to its failure.
It will be a difficult time ~ it's bound to be ~ but you must do what is right for you and yours.
Good luck.
