i remeber with my first boy friend..are first kiss was a dare and infont of a few people..lol i was 15 and it was scarey..anyway on my next real boy friend we worked together and there was never a right time i was only 16 then..i keeped wanting to kiss him, but did know how to go about it..we had been dateing a while, but only seen each other at work( i had a mom that didnt like the idea of going on dates lol) one day as he was about to go home he gave me a really quick kiss on the lips..it was sooo cute..then he left really fast with a red face lol..its scarey and kinda odd with every 'first kiss" and with this being your first, first kiss, let him take the role.. he is probably scared and worried that you may not want him to kiss you. he well finaly get over that fear and kiss you, it may not be the right time either lol... just take it slow. and wait...time well come smile