okay, ive been dating my bf for a few months. we started dating in january. we havnt kissed yet. only cuz i dont want to. its weird, i mean i want to but its never the right thing to do. you know? well i just wanted some help. i cant get it from my friends or my mom, they just dont know what to say.

Thanks in advance, im really not good at dating. hes my first bf, so go easy on me but hard at the same time.

i try to tell myself that you always have a first, but that doesnt help. i should be a nun...

Hi brittany98

I don't think that this is anything to worry about. He's your first boyfriend and I'm guessing that you are both very young ~ is that right?

I understand exactly what you mean about 'the right time' ~ and the thing is, 'the right time' will come along and you will wonder whatever you were worrying about.

This is still a new relationship. You will grow to know each other and trust each other more and more until you both feel comfortable enough for that first kiss.
It will be special because you will have waited for 'the right time'.

Well, Brittany, I'm not a girl, lol, but I do have to say that if you all of a sudden want to kiss him, I bet you he will be okay with it. I think you know what I mean. I guess it's the right thing to kiss (have your first kiss) when you're at a party or at a movie. Or maybe it will just be when one of you says "I love you" and then the other responds with a kiss, lol. But as PDM said, you are still young so your it may just be too early for your first kiss. I never kissed my first real girlfriend ... only on a dare but that doesn't count, lol. Good luck with your boyfriend.

awww 3bud.. just too cute, hehe.


Brit, it'll come when you're ready

Hi Brittany,

Speaking from a girl's perspective, your first kiss will happen at 'the right time'. I know you might be sick of that line (XD), but it really is true. I'm in a first time relationship too and I have to admit, I was a bit scared about kissing my boyfriend. First kisses are more comfortable to do when done in private, just you two with no one else around to get you nervous. Me and my boyfriend shared our first kiss in the school corridors when no one was around... before my best friend showed up and busted us XD

Good Luck

i remeber with my first boy friend..are first kiss was a dare and infont of a few people..lol i was 15 and it was scarey..anyway on my next real boy friend we worked together and there was never a right time i was only 16 then..i keeped wanting to kiss him, but did know how to go about it..we had been dateing a while, but only seen each other at work( i had a mom that didnt like the idea of going on dates lol) one day as he was about to go home he gave me a really quick kiss on the lips..it was sooo cute..then he left really fast with a red face lol..its scarey and kinda odd with every 'first kiss" and with this being your first, first kiss, let him take the role.. he is probably scared and worried that you may not want him to kiss you. he well finaly get over that fear and kiss you, it may not be the right time either lol... just take it slow. and wait...time well come

Hey, I am only thirteen, and have kissed a guy twice. My first "Kiss" was in kindergarten, but that doesnt count, my second, real kiss was on my thirteenth birthday, I went to the park by my house, and my nieghbor, who is a year older then me, (who i like A LOT... lol) said happy birthday and he said, I have always had a secret crush on you... then he kissed me on the lips... it was sooooooooooo cute, I didnt know it was coming untill he said that, I was kinda scared... but it made me feel happy tht he felt the same way... ps.... how old are you