I'm sure not gonna go steady with her, which is what I decided, and will ignore her calls. Besides, I've already been seeing another female who also was on the deployment, except she is my own age and has no kids. I've been with her now for almost a month. And so far so good. And, no. She is not one of her girl friends. As for the other persistant one, good luck to her. If she do find another good one, I'm happy for her. But sorry for him since he might have to support her 3 kids.