My husband of 6years abandoned me a year ago on my birthday, And I recently found him and found out he's started a new life with my so-called friend, And she's pregnant with his baby. I am so hurt and I can't seem to get over what they did. How long is it going to take 4 me to get over this? My family says get over it, but its easier said than done. I have no closure on the situation, cuz he says I just need to be single, It's nothing U have done you're a good wife. I never bought that. I know I wasn't perfect but noone deserves this. My life has been turned upside down,I'm scared of a new relationship and I am trying to heal with no avail. Doing everyday things like goin to work, cooking, cleaning, being a mother ETC Is so hard and I'm constantly fighting back tears, trying to be strong.
I've been depressed before but this is very different!!
I want to check myself into a crazy house.
Please give me some advice or direction.

Last edited by Resentful1; 05/12/07 09:38 PM. Reason: mispelled word