Welcome to the forum, girly53193
I'm sorry about Parrish's response to your post.

Parrish, as you now realise, there is a lot more to this forum than birds ~ please do not offend newcomers.

girly53193, Aerial is right, being a teenager and dealing with romance is a difficult combination

The boy you like may feel shy and embarrassed or he might feel awkward because he liked you but didn't 'fancy' you, as it were.

The other thing is, when friends get involved, you can never be sure just exactly what they are saying on your behalf.

Maybe you should just be brave and tell 'the cute guy' that, yes, you do find him attractive, you know that a couple of friends have told him, you understand that he isn't interested in you being his girlfriend, but can things just get back to normal and just be friends, without the embarrassing awkwardness that you both seem to be feeling at present. You never know how he might respond.

I don't know how old you are, but you must be fairly young if you are at school ~ don't worry about it; it's all a learning experience.

As Aerial says, act positive and normal and don't make too much fuss about it. Others might tend to get involved and make things worse.

Keep smiling ~ it will all be ok in the end.


Last edited by PDM; 05/11/07 07:32 AM.

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